There are several ways to introduce your wife or girlfriend to swinging lifestyle. Swinging is still considered a taboo for many societies and that it still remains underground to this day. Nonetheless, swinging is a great way to engage in sexual activities while at the same time become sociable with other people. Couple who participate in swinging activities may have a variety of reason why they go through it. A number of couples would recommend this as a means to spice up what used to be a boring and conventional sex life. Others started out as being curious while others see this as an opportunity to socialize with other people. After all, swinging does not choose the participants as anyone can practically join. Normally, men are into this kind of sexual experience especially for those who have lived their lives having more than one partner before settling down. It’s in their nature to find other partners, at least in terms of having sex which is why men are considered to be very polygamous. For women, swinging may sound very unusual, even degrading. Society paints them as being sweet, kind and very naïve. In short, women are non-sexual beings. But if you are the type who is more than willing to have an exchange in partners, then you would need to convince your wife or girlfriend to become a swinger.
To start off with your wife swap, set the foundation by becoming very sociable. Try socializing around with people who are into swinging and ask tips as well how to convince your partner to become a swinger wife. Oh by the way, finding these people is not as easy as going into a club and asking them if they are into swinging. It would be best to find out if you know someone who is into this and then you can start from there. If not, you can always rely on the Internet and search for blogs and threads that cater to swinging. Once you have established rapport with this group, slowly introduce your wife to them through dinners, hang outs, etc so that she would be comfortable around them.
When working on turning her into a swinger wife, always complement how beautiful and special she is. Often, women feel insecure about their looks or the shape of their body which is one of the reasons why they do not approve of having sex with others. By telling her that her body could pass for a swimsuit cover and her looks would make Hollywood call her, her stand on swinging must turn into your favor.
Another “do not” when it comes to convincing her to become a swinger wife would be tricking her to have sex with others. Tricking her will not just make her mad but would also lose her respect for you. Tell her the truth. Better yet, be honest and tell her how you feel about this and how it would certainly heighten your sexuality and create a new experience in your relationship. And of course, give her time to think so that if she does agree, it was done through her free will.
Here’s a good tip. If she still has reservations on becoming a swinger wife, try to suggest for her to make her own group of friends. This allows her the freedom to choose the type of people she might engage with sexuality in the near future. Suggest swinger sites online where she can participate with forums and discussions without having to reveal herself at first. Convincing her to become a swinger wife may take lots of time and effort. However if you take the right steps and with a little luck on your side, it is possible you may experience the best sexual experience of your life.